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The 3-Step Strategy Women Use to Negotiate £10k + Raises Internally (Not Just the Script)

The 3-Step Strategy Women Use to Negotiate £10k + Raises Internally (Not Just the Script)

The common advice, "just ask for more" is ineffective and often leads to disappointment. What works is a strategic framework that turns your subjective achievements into objective, monetizable value.

This 3-step strategy will help you build an irrefutable case for a 5-figure salary increase by focusing on preparation and psychological approach, not just the moment you speak.

 

1. Step 1: The Data-Driven Anchor (De-Risking the Ask)

To command a significant raise, you must anchor your request to quantifiable, external, or internal company data. Your value is not your effort; it’s the money you made or saved the company.

 

1.1. Focus on "Dragon Slaying," Not Daily Tasks (Internal Value Audit)

The biggest mistake is listing your job duties. Your manager hired you for those. You get paid more when you solve problems that were not in your job description, what we call "Dragon Slaying."

  • Actionable Strategy: Create a one-page "Achievement Portfolio" that quantifies results.

    • Example 1: "Successfully managed the vendor migration, reducing license costs by £8,000 annually."

    • Example 2: "Refactored the core processing engine, increasing throughput by 20% and reducing server costs by £200 per month."

The key is to use numbers to show you're already operating at the next level, justifying the next-level compensation.

 

1.2. External Benchmark: How to Use Market Rate Without Threatening

While you shouldn't threaten to leave, understanding the external market is crucial for anchoring your target number.

  • Actionable Strategy: Research salary bands (Glassdoor, LinkedIn Salary, recruiter data) for the job title you want, not the one you have. Use this data to determine a precise, evidence-based target number that is slightly aspirational (at least 15% higher than your current pay).

 

2. Step 2: The Emotional Barrier Management

Your negotiation success is often determined by your confidence. Imposter Syndrome is the internal enemy of the raise.

 

2.1. Defusing Imposter Syndrome with Objective Evidence

Imposter Syndrome thrives on comparison and subjective fear.1 It shrivels in the face of objective data.

  • Actionable Strategy: Before scheduling the meeting, practice stating your achievements out loud using your Achievement Portfolio (Step 1). The goal is to separate your feelings of inadequacy from the facts of your contribution. You are negotiating on behalf of the data, not your emotions.

 

2.2. The Time-Tested Pre-Negotiation Confidence Boost

Confidence is not a personality trait; it’s a temporary state you can induce.

  • Actionable Strategy: For 72 hours before the negotiation, intentionally stop apologizing in all emails and conversations. This small behavioral shift forces you to reframe your language from passive to assertive, building necessary muscle memory for the high-stakes conversation.

 

 

3. Step 3: The Communication Framework

The actual conversation or email follows a precise, three-part structure designed to minimize pushback and frame the negotiation as a collaborative business decision.

 

3.1. Anchor High, Justify Low

This framework dictates the structure of your proposal. You state your desired salary first (the anchor), and then immediately justify it by referencing your documented value (the justification).

  • Actionable Strategy: Your opening must follow this logical order:

    1. State Appreciation/Enthusiasm: (Keeps the tone collaborative).

    2. State Your Target Number (The Anchor): (The desired £10k+ raise).

    3. Justify with Data (The Justification): (Reference the Dragon Slaying/market data from Step 1).

 

3.2. The Silent Power

After presenting your case, the single most powerful tool you have is silence.

  • Actionable Strategy: Once you deliver your target number and its justification, stop talking. The strategic use of silence shifts the psychological burden of response to the decision-maker, giving your proposal time to sink in.

 

 

The Final Step: Turning Strategy into Success

Reading a strategy is the diagnosis. Implementing it flawlessly is the cure.

The strategies above provide the crucial framework for success, but the real challenge lies in the word-for-word delivery, anticipating objections, and maintaining confidence under pressure.

The most successful women don't just know the strategy, they master the specific scripts and practice the entire negotiation sequence.

 

Ready for the Exact Scripts, Practice, and Toolkit?

The Fast-Track to Success Course takes this three-step framework and provides the entire system you need:

  • Word-for-Word Email Templates: Proven scripts for the pre-negotiation data gathering and the final raise request.

  • Objection Management: Tools to confidently handle pushback (e.g., "It's not in the budget").

  • Full Strategy Module: Dedicated lessons on building the confidence required for a 5-figure raise.

100% Satisfaction Guarantee: If you are not completely satisfied after reviewing the first 5 lessons, request a full refund within 7 days. Zero risk. Zero questions asked.

Click here to enroll now and master your negotiation toolkit today.

 

Your price is £197 - a tiny investment for a potential £10+ return. (Limited Time Founding Member Rate – Price Increases 31/12/2025)

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05.12.2025

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